Is an epiphany from my wedding day as I thought about for years I've tried to learn about marriage: is it possible to have a marriage that's not an institution or a war zone? And I spent a lot of time watching others and learning and reading books and listening to things, and here I was at 42 years, getting ready to step in and dive into this thing of learning to become a husband.
We often think of mysteries as something to be solved: get inside and figure it all out and classify and organize it and say, "Oh, this all works that way." All right, cool. Now we—this is, it's interesting. You want to, you want to see how this works, you know, and you can show people, like, it's an intellectual exercise. But God's mysteries are not riddles to be solved, but wonders to participate in. When we obey His simple commands, we eventually find ourselves in awe being part of a miracle.