What's hard with the father's role is, you know, you work hard all day at your job, whatever your job is. Your wife is also working hard at home, taking care of the children. But at the end of the workday, your wife has spent all day with the children. You spent not one minute with them. You've been off on your job. So then you've got just the evening and the weekends to spend that time with your children. And it's not because you're being neglectful. It's what, you know, God and society expects of you.
So just in the way of, if I can give any advice on this, if you can possibly avoid it, don't work more than 40 hours a week.