The first step is to realize that one is proud. If you think you're not conceited, it means you're very conceited indeed. And I say, I think we have to really dig deep and look at ourselves. Truly, I ask ourselves, and we might need to be praying to God, asking our spouse, asking someone we really trust and care. Are we proud? They can help us see that because we can, like I said, we can easily deceive ourselves. I know as I study this lesson, I realize that there is still a spirit of pride in me on certain things.
And I think, if we're all honest, I think we all have something still inside us that we need to conquer.