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Question 9
Richard described creative neighbor-love that kept distance—an alleyway conversation at six feet, dropping food for healthcare workers, and adjusting food boxes for a Muslim woman by removing bacon/pork rinds; what do these examples reveal about God’s heart toward outsiders, and what specific “creative obedience” could your church attempt that costs time and comfort but respects limitations?
Another way to ask: What do these distance-friendly acts of neighbor-love show about God’s care for outsiders? What is one “creative obedience” your church could try that costs you time and comfort but still respects limits?
Discussion Jumpstarter

Direct Answer
Richard’s stories suggest that loving neighbors—including outsiders and people of other faiths—means practical generosity, respectful understanding, and creativity under constraints. The transcript presents “creative obedience” as serving real needs while still honoring distancing limits.

Support from Transcript:
  • Richard wrestles with how to help when “you're not supposed to get close,” calling it “very different than 9/11,” requiring new creativity.
  • He describes a “barbecue out back… legal,” where two neighbors stood “in the back alleyway, six feet,” leading to a new hour-long conversation that “had never happened.”
  • The church blessed healthcare workers by “giving meals… got some Subway… and just dropped them off.”
  • They distributed food boxes via “Blessings of Hope in Pennsylvania… part of the Anabaptist COVID-19 response group,” blessing “neighbors that we didn't know.”
  • With a Muslim woman, Hafsa, they adjusted the gift: removed “salad with bacon” and “pork rinds,” and she responded with gratitude for her and her friends.
Discussion Follow-ups Who are the “outsiders” near you that you rarely consider? What project (meals, calls, deliveries, outdoor conversations at distance) could you start this month that would be inconvenient but clearly loving?