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Question 5
The skunk illustration is used to argue sin alienates us from God by nature, not because God needs a change of heart; where do you see your own instincts leaning toward “God must be persuaded” versus “I must be cleansed,” and how would each instinct affect prayer, repentance, and how you handle ongoing sin?
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Direct Answer
The speaker’s point is that God’s love and willingness are not the barrier—our uncleanness is—so the healthier instinct is “I must be cleansed,” not “God must be persuaded.” If you live as though God must be persuaded, prayer becomes bargaining and repentance becomes optional; if you accept cleansing as the issue, prayer turns into humble drawing near and ongoing sin becomes something to fight and wash away.
- Skunk illustration: you may “feel fine towards your friend,” but until he is cleansed “you are not going to be able to invite him into your home… Not because you have to change, but because he has to change.”
- He applies it: “We needed changing. We needed cleaning up. God didn't need to change at all.”
- He states the principle: “sin… alienates us from God” and “a holy God cannot have close fellowship with a person who is unholy.”
- He emphasizes God’s posture: “God loved us and he was willing to forgive us,” but “the sin in us made a barrier.”
- He cites James 4:8: “Draw near to God… Cleanse your hands… purify your hearts,” concluding “it's we who have to move towards God.”
- He connects this to Christ’s blood: cleansing happens “through the grace of God and through the power of Jesus's blood.”