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Question 7
David distinguishes between forgiving and “speaking out,” saying the deciding issue is motive (animosity vs love of truth and compassion); when you talk about Watchtower—online, with family, or in church—what signs reveal whether your speech is driven by revenge, and what would it sound like if it were driven by compassion for those still inside?
Another way to ask: When you speak about Watchtower (online, with family, or at church), what clues show whether you’re driven by revenge? What would it sound like if you spoke from compassion for people still inside?
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Direct Answer
David’s test is motive: speech driven by revenge carries animosity and a desire to “get even,” while compassionate speech still names errors but aims to help people “see the light,” stays fair, and includes prayerful concern for those still misled.
- He says, “Speaking out against what is wrong is perfectly compatible with forgiving… It all depends on what motivates you.”
- He contrasts motives directly: “animosity toward the watchtower” vs “love of truth and compassion for others.”
- He confesses his earlier revenge impulse: he “wished there were a way to get even,” which made him “bitter.”
- His model after forgiving: he speaks about “their errors,” but also “their good qualities and the things they do right.”
- He claims his friends notice he speaks “just as much about the positive aspects… as… negative.”
- He adds a concrete check: when he hears “erroneous accusations… I will always correct what’s being said.”
- He reminds the goal is not their approval: “This is about forgiveness, not about being appreciated by them.”