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Question 7
In discussing Matthew 18, John Ruth emphasizes “binding and loosing” as a God-backed responsibility (“Use your brain that was given by God… there’s no promise you will always get it right”); what would it require for a congregation today to take that kind of communal authority seriously without becoming abusive or cowardly?
Another way to ask: Ruth says “binding and loosing” in Matthew 18 is a serious church responsibility backed by God, even though we might get it wrong. What would it take for a church today to practice that kind of shared authority without becoming controlling or avoiding hard issues?
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Direct Answer
Based on the transcript, it would require treating discipline as relational reconciliation (not control), practicing the step-by-step process of Matthew 18, and owning responsibility humbly—seeking God’s help while admitting fallibility. It also requires refusing both extremes: only “binding” (rigidity) or only “loosing” (anything goes).
- The speaker emphasizes Matthew 18 is “about relationship,” beginning with “Go talk to the guy… take somebody else… tell it to the church.”
- He interprets “church” as ecclésia, a gathered community: not “a building with a steeple,” but a people who “share it” and “make a call.”
- He highlights communal responsibility: “Use your brain that was given by God. That’s radical,” with “heaven will back you.”
- He adds a guardrail: “There’s no promise you will always get it right… Conrad himself didn’t get some things right.”
- He critiques both cultural failures: “I grew up in a culture that did nothing but bind. Now I’m living in one that does nothing but loose.”
- He uses the umpire analogy: without agreed authority and decisions, “it wouldn’t be baseball,” implying discipline requires shared submission to a process.