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Bercot stacks Old Testament examples (Abraham’s servant and Rebekah at the well, Jacob and Rachel, Deborah, Boaz and Ruth, Eli and Hannah, Joab and the wise woman of Abel); which of these examples most undermines the claim that Judaism was broadly marked by disdain toward women, and what picture of God’s order/wisdom in community life emerges from them?

Another way to ask: Which Old Testament story listed here best shows that Jewish life wasn’t mainly about looking down on women? What do these stories teach about how God wants people to live and work together?

Direct Answer The Joab and “wise woman” account most strongly undermines the “disdain” claim because it shows a powerful military leader listening respectfully to a woman’s counsel in a public crisis. Together, these examples picture a community where men and women interact normally and wisdom is honored.

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Bercot parallels John 4 with Genesis 24: Abraham’s servant asks Rebekah, “Please let me drink a little water,” and she answers normally—no shock at a man speaking to her.
He lists ordinary male-female interactions: “Jacob spoke to Rachel,” “Boaz spoke to Ruth,” and “Eli spoke to Hannah.”
He highlights Deborah: “The men of Israel came to Deborah the prophetess for judgments,” implying recognized female authority in a public role.
The strongest example, in his telling, is Joab: the woman calls him, he approaches, she speaks, and he responds, “I am listening” (2 Samuel 20:16–22).
Bercot’s conclusion from these patterns: “men not only spoke with women, but also listened to their advice when given in wisdom.”

Discussion Follow-ups Which of these biblical examples feels most “normal” to you, and which feels most challenging—and why?

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