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Question 8

David Bercot stresses that “Vengeance is mine” does not mean Christians should want God to punish enemies, pointing to Jesus’ “Father, forgive them”; how do you tell the difference in your own heart between entrusting justice to God and secretly craving divine payback?

Another way to ask: How can you tell if you are truly leaving justice to God or if you secretly want God to punish the person who hurt you? What clues show up in your thoughts, prayers, or feelings?

Direct Answer According to the transcript, entrusting justice to God means adopting Jesus’ forgiving attitude while leaving punishment, if any, to God’s decision—without desiring it. Craving divine payback shows up when you want God’s judgment as emotional revenge rather than being “content to leave matters in His hand.”

Support from Transcript:

“Vengeance is mine, I will repay,” is quoted, but Bercot clarifies Paul is “not saying that Christians should desire God to take vengeance on their enemies.”
Jesus’ model: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing… That should always be our attitude as well.”
Yet God remains judge: “it is ultimately up to God to decide whether to punish our enemies.”
The proper posture: “We should be content to leave matters in His hand.”
Lactantius (as quoted): the righteous man “will not seek revenge… reserve it for the judgment of God,” and “must always remain innocent.”
Clement: those who “bless those who curse them are far from ever taking vengeance.”

Discussion Follow-ups Do you pray for an enemy’s forgiveness and good, or mainly for their downfall? When you think of God judging them, does it bring satisfaction or sorrow—and what does that reveal about your attitude?

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