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Direct Answer Bercot teaches that specific gratitude reveals whether we truly notice and value others’ sacrifices, especially the quiet, behind-the-scenes work that makes church life function. If we really “esteem others better,” we will look for unseen labor, name it, and thank God and the person for it, instead of taking it for granted.

Support from Transcript:

• He cites Proverbs 12:25: “a good word makes it glad,” and Ephesians 4:29 about speech that is “good for building up.”
• For speakers, he gives good/better/best: from “Thanks for your message,” to “I was really blessed,” to mentioning something “specific” you learned or an illustration.
• He highlights overlooked ministries: children’s teachers “go downstairs… most of the adults are never going to hear,” so it’s “easy to forget them.”
• He mentions hidden maintenance: those who stock “paper towels… toilet tissue,” and says, “find out who’s doing it, and then give thanks.”
• He notes schedule-makers only get noticed “until something goes wrong,” urging thanks when things go smoothly.
• He includes meals and the person keeping “the congregation checkbook… bills,” calling it “a time-taking ministry of love.”
• He ties gratitude to inner humility: Philippians 2:3, “esteem others better,” and says then “90% of the battle has been won.”