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Question 7
Origen applies Jesus’ teaching by saying even “the wife of our bosom” can become “enemies of our salvation” if they are a stumbling block; what relationships in your life (spouse, parents, children, closest friends) have the strongest power to steer your obedience, and what boundaries or decisions would prove Christ is not being “out-loved” by them?
Another way to ask: Origen says even close family can pull us away from obedience to Jesus. Which relationships in your life most influence your choices, and what boundaries or decisions would show you love Christ more than them?
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The transcript points to the closest relationships—spouse, parents, children, siblings, even “his own life”—as the ones most able to steer obedience. The proving boundary is choosing Christ’s call over their demands or expectations when those demands “hinder godliness,” even if that strains peace at home.
- Jesus’ list targets “the people… dearest and closest to us… father and mother, wife and children… and his own life also.”
- Origen warns that even “the wife of our bosom… [may] become a stumbling block,” and calls such influences “enemies of our salvation.”
- The speaker links Matthew 10 as interpretation: “He who loves… more than me is not worthy of me.”
- He shares his own example: he had to “put the calling of Christ… before the will of my wife… my parents… my family,” and says without that he “wouldn’t be standing here.”
- He acknowledges even “godly parents” can still be situations where one must, in Jesus’ sense, “hate them and follow a way… unfamiliar,” even violating traditions.