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Question 8

In unpacking “our Father,” David and Cyprian stress the communal “our” even in private prayer and critique “just me and my Jesus” piety; what specific habits or language in your prayer life reveal an individualistic Christianity, and what would it look like to genuinely pray as “the whole people”?

Another way to ask: David and Cyprian say “our Father” means prayer is never just about “me and Jesus,” even when alone. What habits or words in your prayers show you think mostly about yourself, and what would change if you truly prayed as part of God’s whole people?

Direct Answer Individualistic Christianity shows up when prayer language and concerns revolve around “me” and “my” without carrying the needs and holiness of others before God. To pray as “the whole people,” David says we should consciously include others even in private prayer, beginning with “our,” and seeking God’s work in the community and world.

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David says the first word “our” is “extremely significant,” because Jesus teaches us “not to just pray for ourselves.”
He says even private prayer should start “our,” because “we’re including other people,” and if we enter prayer thinking only of ourselves “we’re already off track.”
Cyprian is quoted: “We don’t say my Father…nor give me…Our prayer is public and communal…we do not pray for one person, but for the whole people.”
David critiques pietist/revivalist language like “my Jesus,” saying apostles never speak that way and warning against “It’s just me and my Jesus.”
He connects the Lord’s Prayer to anti-selfishness again in “give us…daily bread,” not “give me.”

Discussion Follow-ups What repeated phrases in your prayers might reveal self-focus? What would change if you regularly prayed for the church’s faithfulness, forgiveness, and witness alongside your own needs?

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