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Question 8
He bluntly states, “the only problem…is that today’s women will not accept what it says,” and adds that men often lack courage and “like Adam, we listen to our wives instead of listening to God.” Whether or not you agree with his tone, what specific fears (relational, social, institutional) keep churches from teaching controversial texts, and what would repentance look like in leadership and in households?
Another way to ask: Even if you dislike his tone, what fears keep churches from teaching unpopular Bible texts? What would real repentance look like for leaders and for families?

Direct Answer Based on Bercot’s comments, churches avoid controversial texts mainly out of fear of backlash—especially opposition from women in the congregation and conflict within marriages—so leaders choose silence or reinterpretation. Repentance would look like teaching the passage plainly, resisting people-pleasing, and choosing obedience to God over fear of relational consequences.

Support from Transcript:

  • He says the issue is not difficulty: “1 Corinthians 11 is not a difficult passage to understand. The only problem… is that today’s women will not accept what it says.”
  • He claims pastors fear consequences: a pastor who teaches it will receive “an enormous amount of opposition from his congregation.”
  • He asks who would have “the guts” to teach the lines about man as “image and glory of God” and woman as “glory of man.”
  • He describes strategies of avoidance: “skip… altogether,” “rush through,” or “explain it away.”
  • He says many men lack “moral courage… going against their wives… going against today’s culture,” and compares it to Adam listening to his wife.
Discussion Follow-ups What would it mean for a church to value peace with God above peace with people? In a household, how can a husband lead without harshness and a wife follow conscience without rebellion, if both want to honor Scripture?