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Question 9

Wesley is quoted saying outward adorning opposes “inward quietness of spirit,” that the “inward work of the Spirit stands still” and even “recedes,” and that indulgence in dress breeds vanity; how should a group discern whether this is spiritual exaggeration or spiritual realism, and what evidence in your own life would confirm or challenge Wesley’s claims?

Another way to ask: How can a group tell if Wesley is being over-the-top or describing real spiritual danger about dress and vanity? What things in your own life would support or challenge what he says?

Direct Answer The transcript suggests discerning this by examining motives and fruit: whether adornment is driven by a desire “to be admired,” whether it shifts you toward worldliness, and whether it interferes with peace, God-consciousness, and inward spiritual growth.

Support from Transcript:

Wesley’s test targets motive: “You know in your hearts it is with a view to be admired that you so adorn yourselves.”
He offers a practical check: you “would not take the same pains if no one was to see you but God and His holy angels.”
He connects indulgence to growth of sin: “the more you indulge this foolish desire, the more it grows… you increase it a hundredfold.”
He claims spiritual consequences over time: fellowship “gradually declines” and you “sink deeper and deeper into the spirit of the world.”
Bercot’s framing matches this realism: focusing on outward beauty is about pleasing “people,” while kingdom life focuses on what makes us “beautiful in God’s eyes.”
He also ties outward behavior to inward condition: disobedient outward adorning makes “our souls uglier.”

Discussion Follow-ups The transcript doesn’t give a formal group process, but it implies honest self-examination: Does attention to appearance increase peace and inner holiness—or feed vanity, anxiety about people’s opinions, and spiritual drift?

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