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Finny says Calvinism “impedes the character of God” and turns people away from God; when you compare the “grumpy old man…disappointed in me” picture with Jesus’ “prodigal son father…running to grab you,” what concrete differences would those two pictures produce in prayer, repentance, and daily obedience?

Another way to ask: Finny says Calvinism can make God seem harsh and push people away. If you picture God as a “grumpy old man” versus the father in the prodigal son story, how would those pictures change your prayer, repentance, and everyday obedience?

Direct Answer Finny implies the “grumpy old man” picture produces fear, shame, and a sense that God is mainly “disappointed,” while Jesus’ “prodigal son father” picture produces confidence to return, openness in prayer, and repentance shaped by love rather than dread. In daily obedience, one fuels avoidance and suspicion; the other fuels trust and responsive surrender.

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Finny quotes Tozer: “What comes to our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us.”
He reports a common answer in churches: people think God is “disappointed in me” “right now.”
He describes the dominant picture: “a grumpy old man who’s like out to get you… an angry God, a punishing God.”
He contrasts Jesus’ teaching: “this loving father, prodigal son, father picture, who’s like just waiting and running to grab you and hug you and kiss you.”
He frames it as spiritual warfare: the devil tries to make you “question the character of God.”
He says Calvinism “impedes the character of God and it turns people from God.”

Discussion Follow-ups What would change if you assumed God’s first posture toward repentance is eager welcome? How might that reshape confession, perseverance, and your view of discipline?

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