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Study leader reference - not a definitive answer
Question 10
Laura framed the world’s fashion system as “Satan’s old plan to steal and to kill and to destroy,” while God’s commands are “freedom” from the “rat race”—how do you discern whether your resistance to her conclusions is biblical caution, personal preference, fear of man, or attachment to the very bondage she describes?
Another way to ask: When you push back on Laura’s views, how can you tell if it’s because of the Bible, your personal taste, fear of people’s opinions, or because you’re attached to the “rat race” she describes?
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Direct Answer
Based on the transcript, discernment comes by examining your heart and fruit: whether resistance is rooted in a sincere desire to obey Scripture and seek God’s heart, or whether it flows from wanting approval, comfort, or control—since she argues God’s commands produce freedom, contentment, and protection, while the world’s system produces bondage and misery.
- She contrasts motives: God’s call comes from “protection and… love,” while the world’s fashion call is “Satan’s old plan to steal and to kill and to destroy.”
- She says Satan “delights in every kind of bondage,” including women’s “misery and self-loathing” in trying to be thin/fashionable.
- She describes God’s aim as freedom: not obsessing about weight/clothes, not worrying about outfits, not feeling shame versus other women.
- She claims resistance can be tied to shame: God grieves when a woman is “ashamed of this crown” (head covering) and thus “ashamed of Him.”
- She urges seeing “your Father’s heart behind every one of His commands,” not reading them as mere restriction.
- In her own story, she admits ongoing temptation, modeling self-examination rather than superiority.