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Question 7
The officiant calls marriage “a miracle, an act of God, where God takes two and He joins them together and makes them one”; how does this view of God’s active joining confront modern ideas that marriage is mainly a contract, personal fulfillment, or compatible preferences?
Another way to ask: The officiant says marriage is God joining two people into one. How does that clash with seeing marriage mainly as a contract, a way to be happy, or just good “compatibility”?
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Direct Answer
Based on the officiant’s words, marriage is not mainly a human agreement but God’s work—He “joins” two into “one”—so it carries sacred weight beyond preference or personal fulfillment. It confronts contract thinking by stressing God’s action, God’s design, and God’s authority over the union.
- The officiant calls it “a miracle, an act of God,” not merely a social arrangement.
- He describes divine agency: “God takes two and He joins them together and makes them one in holy marriage.”
- The ceremony roots marriage in creation: “In the beginning, God created them… Male and female.”
- He emphasizes permanence and divine protection: “What God has joined together, not man put asunder.”
- The couple’s vows mirror long-term covenant, not temporary compatibility: “till death do us part,” and “Above all else, I will love you unconditionally.”