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Question 9
9. She ties trauma care to Galatians 6 and highlights that “restore” is the same Greek word as “mending nets,” requiring “hundreds of knots,” going slow, staying close, and doing “more than one thing”; what does that metaphor demand of a congregation’s patience and time, and how does it confront the modern preference for quick fixes and measurable outcomes?
Another way to ask: If “restore” is like slowly mending nets with many knots, what kind of time and patience would that require from a church? How does that challenge our desire for quick fixes and easy-to-measure results?
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Direct Answer
Her “mending nets” metaphor demands long, careful, relational patience—staying close, going slow, and using many kinds of support rather than one simple intervention. It confronts quick-fix expectations (one verse, one prayer, one program) by portraying restoration as intricate work that cannot be rushed or reduced to immediate measurable results.
- She connects Galatians 6: “restore in a spirit of meekness,” noting “restore is the same Greek word… mending nets.”
- She emphasizes complexity: net mending is “very intricate… hundreds of knots… hundreds of different kinds of knots.”
- She contrasts real mending with shortcuts: “anybody could pull some things together and tie a knot. But to really restore and mend…”
- Therefore: “we have to be willing to go slow… stay close… do more than one thing.”
- She reinforces process over control: “we’re not in charge of their healing process anyway… Jesus… guides them… support the next thing.”